FIRE.089 Pure Zen

Today I had a nice moment of full relaxation, calm, clarity, extreme gratitude and maybe pure zen.  This is the kind of moment so many of us enjoy but experience so rarely.  How do we create these moments for ourselves and our loved ones?  What should we do to bring this experience to light?

My moment of pure zen, so ironically, occurred when I was sitting in traffic where FIVE red stoplights in a row (<1500 ft)delayed my travel.  Let me explain—I’m not crazy. 

I was riding my scooter home from the gym, just as I do a few times per week.  I had just ridden down a semi-windy hill to encounter the second red light in a row.  As I sat at the red light full of gym exercise-exhaustion-induced-endorphins, I felt pure happiness.  It was just the best feeling of accomplishment, freedom, flexibility, and gratitude.

It was a Thursday morning about 11am when I realized my zen.  Recap: I woke up from a nice relaxing sleep at 7:30a, I hung out around the house for a while, and I then rode my scooter to the gym about 9am.  Upon entering the gym, I noticed the normal group of people who can work out at 9a on Thu, the gray-hair gang.  I pushed through my work-your-body routine before hopping on my scooter to head home for a wide-open rest of my day.

So here I was sitting at my second red light with the sun shining and the warm breeze blowing from the ocean a few blocks away, and I immediately thought, “I can’t ask for anything more than this.”  I looked at the cars (and trucks) around me and wondered how many of those people were having to perform a planned activity, or worse, a work-related activity.

To be fair, I used to have plenty of enjoyable days at work.  Days where I accomplished something satisfying and some days where I accomplished something I was surprised it actually worked out.  But the power of FI/RE is that you have so much control over your day/time/energy that it’s truly priceless.  To have that power of FIRE when you are young-ish and healthy is exponential.

I’ve noticed I write “enjoy every day” quite frequently in posts or comments and I don’t know where that came from.  That phrase was never in my lexicon, in any way that I can think of until recently.  Yet, it has become the cornerstone of my current state of mind.  A state of gratitude.  A goal of giving part of that “enjoyment” to others as much as I can.  Maybe enjoying and trying to help others enjoy is multiplicative in nature.  That would make sense, right?  Helping others because you feel good, may help you feel even better.

Side note: I notice I have a lot of enjoyment when the air around me is moving.  It may be on my scooter, my bike, running, in a convertible, sitting on a patio with a breeze, a rooftop deck.  I wonder if the energy from nature, the power of air moving, translates in some way to a higher state of enjoyment.  Maybe that’s why people say “get outside, get moving.”

It is my sincerest hope that you find these moments of gratitude and zen in your life as often as possible.

*** Nothing in this article is to be construed as financial advice.  I am not a financial planner, nor do I pretend to be.  You should always consult your own professional when seeking advice.

FIRE.088 FIRE Perception…Ughh

It just happened again!  Over the past few months, maybe a year or so, I’ve encountered so many people that explain FIRE (to others) as “people living a very-low cost life so they can afford to retire in their 20s or 30s.”  Sometimes they add “so they can live off of 20 or 30 thousand dollars per year.”

When I hear that description I have to wonder if this definition is based on the sensationalized news stories of the rare few—often the content creators who possibly have huge incomes streams from sharing their FIRE life, or recent young “retirees” with no track record/multiple retirement years of experience—rather than the large group of us who are actually just living below our means to be financially, stressfully, and proactively wise?  More specifically, those of us who can choose to leave our work career or lifelong profession any time before the age of 65ish?  (“9 to 5 to 65”)

FI:           We all know what FI is.  We know FI will different for every person.  Today’s FI number may differ from that same person’s future FI number.  So in a sense, FI is an ongoing challenge/process for many of us.

RE:          The Retire Early definition can vary over a far greater range of possibilities.  These may be: sit on a beach, become an activity machine, using your time to help others in many ways, finding a different level of part-time work, or even a fully-funded career change.  RE may simply (or massively) be the ability to change from the normal working grind.

As you get older—remember it seems like one year you’re 25 then the next year you’re 45—you may be surprised to find that there are “young retirees” in their late 50s.  Yes, if you really think about it, retiring “very early” at 57 compared to “normal” social security age of 67 is VERY early.  To be clear, it’s an entire decade of retirement enjoyment compared to your age peers.

I would argue (well, I wouldn’t put in the effort of arguing) that you are a true FIRE person at 57.

I’m sure it seems quite strange for people who are FIREd in the 45-57 age range to think that the perception of financially-wise success of the FIRE ideal is targeted to those 15+ years younger based on media reports.

In other words, why shouldn’t the stories of FIRE successful people in their 50s or 40s be shared with the masses?  Well first, it’s not as attention-grabbing as “29-year-old retires with $800,000 saved.”  And secondly, maybe it’s good to promote people in their 20s saving large chunks of their income (while still enjoying their lives) to put them in better, or amazing, financial situations that will allow serious control of future money decisions they get to make.

For those in their 20s and 30s, you are a super amazing part of the FI world.  Your story absolutely should be shared with the masses.  What you’re doing—living intentionally with your money and life—should be shared on a grand scale and be far more commonplace.

I say “stop thinking FIRE is only for 20s & 30s both age and spending in thousands.”  That is only concentrating on the smallest tail of the distribution of FIRE-ers.  They’re missing the tail of distribution on the overall country that are money smart in their 20s, 30s, 40, 50s.

If you think I’m wrong, that’s cool.  However, I bet over the next decade or so we will all see a lot more low wage workers in their 70s…and probably not because they “want to stay active and meet people at their workplace.”  It may become a necessity based off NOT being intentional with their money—a core trail of FI.  As you know, RE is just an option of FI.  (RE-FI?)

*** Nothing in this article is to be construed as financial advice.  I am not a financial planner, nor do I pretend to be.  You should always consult your own professional when seeking advice.

FIRE.087 This Country Started in Debt

My wife and I took a little journey thru the history of our country last month when we visited Virginia.  We encircled almost the entire state on our little journey exploring the mid-Atlantic.

We were able to see representation on what life was like in 1607, the 1770s, 1860s & 1960s.

We were quite surprised to learn that our nation’s founders were riddled in debt.  Behind the scenes, these leaders who lived on large plantations had large staffs, and even multiple businesses/business interests revealed upon their deaths that they owed so much money their families had to sell many items and assets to try and settle their debts.

Amazing and Enduring Accomplishments

We toured the grand homes and/or museums of Jefferson, Madison, and Monroe (third, fourth, fifth- presidents).  To be honest, there was so much historical information flowing at us (Declaration of Independence, Constitution, Bill of Rights, Monroe Doctrine, British, French, Civil War, Slaves, Ships, Cuba, more Cuba, etc) my facts could be a little jumbled.  I apologize if I’m inaccurate.

What you see is now what you get.

Here’s a little more detail to the best of my knowledge:

Thomas Jefferson:

was a well-educated man who knew many languages (seven?).  He researched multiple government structures and attempted to put together a structure that was fair and could prove long-lasting.  He owned a massive and growing plantation in Virginia.  The large staff included 100+ slaves at multiple locations.  Jefferson was a man of science and tinkered with, and displayed many technology items in his home.  Upon his death, his family has to sell his books/papers to the Library of Congress, then sell his slaves, then sell the plantation home to pay his debts.  I believe the debt was equivalent to 2.5 million dollars in today’s value.

James Madison:

also owned a very large plantation in Virginia.  When he passed away his debts that were managed by his family, yet the famous Dolly still lived quite well.  I recall the plantation/home was eventually sold after his books were sold off.

James Monroe:

had a plantation near Charlottesville VA which was sold upon his passing.  Monroe also had a home and a business in Fredericksburg VA.  The business location/building is now his museum.  I really wished we had known about his plantation while we were in Charlottesville so we could have visited the plantation as well as his Fredericksburg museum.

These presidents were worth 30m-230m in inflation-adjusted dollars according to online sources, but all struggled or were crippled by debt in their lives/deaths.  (references below)

What you see is now what you get (2019 version).

I can’t help but think about the huge plantations/homes the nation’s founders enjoyed while living.  Is there a comparison to today?  I think about the “Joneses” who have McMansions with fancy cars, amazing travel (vacations), workers around their home, and fine furnishings, only to wonder if that lifestyle is just modern-day following along the lines of the historical “American Dream” presented to us hundreds of years prior.

In this case, I’m not judging anyone’s lifestyle choices, not at all.  I was simply amazed and shocked that multiple founding fathers passing away without a positive net-worth.  The correlation of their stories to so many current news articles referencing US savings/debt.

Maybe this is just the “American way.”

References:

https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/2019/02/13/donald-trump-george-washington-net-worth-us-presidents/39011559/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Presidents_of_the_United_States_by_net_worth

https://www.bankrate.com/finance/politics/us-presidents-who-were-deep-in-debt-1.aspx#slide=1

*** Nothing in this article is to be construed as financial advice.  I am not a financial planner, nor do I pretend to be.  You should always consult your own professional when seeking advice.

FIRE.086 Transition Thoughts

This is for Tracy.

I’m excited to hear about your transition from full-time work—at the office you drove to and from every weekday—to your new work-from-home position.  What an amazing feeling to be free from both the office desk and the (mostly) wasted time in the car

I have some thoughts for you to consider:

  • Continue to find gratitude in each day.  Take a few minutes near the beginning and end of each day to fully embrace the magic of your new employment lifestyle.
  • Of course, never lose sight of the customer who’s financial inflow is related to your salary.  Having said that, consider how your salary affects the business owner(s) and success of the overall business.  Having known you for a while, I know you care immensely for others, but also take time to realize how much the customers appreciate your efforts.  Hopefully, your boss has a way to see their appreciation.  (I know he does).
  • Map out your bosses tasks, goals and needs, so you are always on top of, if not ahead of those items.   ToDoist, Google Tasks, etc
  • Use ideas from others as improvements to help solve problems and drive progress.
  • Consider incoming suggestions (or even complaints) as a wish the customer has that you can strive for, even if it’s not possible to complete exactly as requested.
  • Share successes, project status and ideas for features to your boss in a succinct weekly bulleted email.  It shows your amazingness and it keeps track of yearly accomplishments.  All too often we don’t stop to review our greatness (or our challenges/failures—which are just learning/growing experiences).  Report problems early if you need help.
  • Never be afraid to push your boss, and the business, toward new higher levels.  If you have an idea (or other’s have ideas) pull the idea together into a small little plan and review if it’s feasible.  Let the owner decide if that would be valuable.  [Note: those with ideas often receive the task, so speak up only when it moves the needle]
  • Complain about *stuff* to people outside of work.  Maintain only (mostly) positiveness at work.
  • Accept help from others.

Enjoy Tracy!

For all:

In writing these ideas, I truly feel they overflow into so many aspects of life.  These ideas are not bound to employment but apply to relationships, families, projects, and our overall environments.

We should all strive to be a doer  rather than a downer.  Which of those would you want to be around and support?

*** Nothing in this article is to be construed as financial advice.  I am not a financial planner, nor do I pretend to be.  You should always consult your own professional when seeking advice.

FIRE.085 Power Center CampFI

Over Memorial Day weekend I was lucky to attend a “Financial Conference” as I explained it to people.  In truth, it was a hangout session for money nerds, which was quite accurately disguised as a “camp.”

I’ve been to a CampFI before, the “Southwest” version at Joshua Tree, and was just as thrilled this time after spending three more days with my people again this year—albeit different my peoples as CampFI Mid-Atlantic.

He’s the really cool thing, the group of seventy plus people ranged in ages from 23 to maybe 63ish.  To be even more clear, there almost were three generations in attendance but there weren’t different levels of discussions.  ALL ages of people were engaged in discussions, on all topics, no matter their age.  EVERYONE in the discussions added ideas, perspective, and additional inquiries.

I’m quite an introvert at heart—just like many others I’ve come into contact with in the FI world—yet at the CampFI’s it is so easy to talk to everyone.  To me, it’s the strangest thing to just walk up to someone and start chatting, then go more in-depth on a topic, or multiple topics, a process that just seems so natural.

Discussion timelines were quite amazing as people talked very late into the evening and were often up early getting their bodies in gear with some form of activity.  The campers sure seem to really live life to the max and get the most out of their day(s).

For those who don’t know, CampFI is three days of hanging out with people so similar to yourself.  We arrive on Friday afternoon and leave mid-day on Monday.  The camps are located outside of a populated area in a (youth?) camp-like setting.  It’s a little basic on the lodging and dining side, but that seems to fit us FI people just fine, especially since we often cherish experiences more than material items.  We do not seem to need luxurious accommodations.

The days are really very loose and open with lots of free time to gather, play games, snack, hang out, meet, then meet more, and truly get to know so many people living a similar intentional lifestyle.  One very cool aspect is that everyone comes from different professions and often different parts of the country (or even worldwide). 

There are a couple of hour-long presentations each day on life topics.  The presentations are not really geared toward money talk.  They seem to be more about a higher level of thinking, of living the best life on your own terms.  I’m sure that is on purpose as we all consume money -talk media non-stop in our real lives. 

The group size at both of my camps has been great.  There are lots (70ish) of people to hang out with and make friendships, but not too many to be overwhelmed. 

In closing, I think my main thought is that I find I really care about the people I’ve met.  I’m excited to stay in contact and watch their lives progress towards more-awesomeness.  At (and after) camp, it’s not at all like the instagram-highlight reel lifestyle, but a much truer, more real, we’re-kicking-ass at the lifestyle we choose.

If you’re really into living an intentional FI related life, CampFI is a great way to rise up another notch.

*** Nothing in this article is to be construed as financial advice.  I am not a financial planner, nor do I pretend to be.  You should always consult your own professional when seeking advice.

FIRE.084 Back Rack, Sale Rack

Hey you, yeah you, go to the back of the store! 

Are you like most people who walk by, or into a store and see all the cool merchandise up front attempting to draw you in?  Yeah, we all see that stuff.  However, the financially astute of us bypass those racks/shelves and head for the back of the store.

The back of the store often contains the sale racks.    seasonal items, Unloved items, final few sizes of items, etc.  Maybe even something wrong with the items

If shopping to you is anything like a “treasure hunt,”—boy that description of “entertainment” shopping just stresses me out—then finding the diamond in the rough on the sale racks seems perfect for you.

Thrift store shopping is also a great way to find special “treasures.”  My newest hunted item seems to be stretchy jeans that are thin material.  These are great for wearing when riding my scooter.  I wouldn’t have even known about such a product except I was killing time while my wife was treasure hunting one day at the/a thrift store.

Shop different than others, so you can live differently than others, both now and in the future.

*** Nothing in this article is to be construed as financial advice.  I am not a financial planner, nor do I pretend to be.  You should always consult your own professional when seeking advice.

FIRE.083 Do You See Outside the Headlights?

Do you live each day with enjoyment?  Do the events that unfold throughout the day add to your satisfaction?     [please say yes]

We have a family member who is getting older and lives each day with enjoyment, excitement, and passion.  That is so much of what we all want in our own lives.  The hard part of this story is that most of their thoughts are in those daily moments.  The past activities are not as bright and visible.

Senior Moments:

As we age, we all have some brain connections that slip or miss.  These often have been referred to as “senior moments.”  That makes sense as they happen more frequently as we get older.  They can be simple things like you can’t quite remember the name of a business or exact location.  At first, it seems the reason you can’t recall the information is that you didn’t pay full attention at the time of the action or other things have come up since that activity.  Yes, that is true, but it’s also because our brain synapses’ just aren’t firing and connecting quite as well as they used to in processing information.

Headlight Range:

The analogy I envision is to think about driving at night on a quiet country road.  What you’re concentrating on is the activity right in front of you.  Sure, you can also see a little way up the road with some headlight glare.  But just outside those bright lights, the view somewhat darker.  The activities are right there, just outside the brightness, but they are hard to make out clearly.

Think about looking in your rearview mirror.  Immediately behind your car may be visible, or somewhat visible because your taillights give some light, but farther back, it can be very dark and hard to recognize.

If there are streetlights, business lights/signs, highway signs, other car headlights, those will help you see outside your own headlight area.  I feel like those helping lights are people around you who are with you and possibly assisting you.

My question, is living within the headlight visibility area OK?  Sure, if you see the brightness is the day, in the activities.  If you concentrate on those areas that are dark, then you may not feel as positive about your life journey.

Enjoy Each Day:

Whatever we do in life, I really believe finding the positive and enjoying your day—whatever’s in your visual/visible range—may be the most important thing we can do for ourselves and others.

If possible, strengthen your own shining light with exercise, diet, social interactions, whatever it may take.  One morning we will all not see the morning light, so enjoy each day!

*** Nothing in this article is to be construed as financial advice.  I am not a financial planner, nor do I pretend to be.  You should always consult your own professional when seeking advice.

FIRE.082 We PASSED the Joneses today

I was thinking about this whole “keeping up with the Joneses” thing the other “WE-day” when my wife and I were driving on the freeway at 11a and drove past dozens and dozens of office parks with smallish businesses.  When driving past these businesses, I always think about how half of the people in the US are employed by smallish businesses, nearly all of which we’ve never heard of.  I’ve always had the tendency to think large Mega-Corps were the big employers but that’s a fallacy according to the statistics.  

As we drove by, I thought about the employers, and then I thought about the employees.  I realized many of these employees follow the weekly grind of wake, prep, drive work, drive, evening time, sleep, repeat.

Grinding Pressures:

I wondered about the pressures causing their personal push into the weekly grind, or worse, the 9-to5-to-65 grind.

I wondered if their push related to the newer cars in the parking lots.  I wondered about their homes and the niceties they may have.  I wondered if they need to take large amazing vacations to decompress from the weekly grind. 

Upper Frugal

I mentally compared our older used vehicles and the starter home we’ve lived in for almost 30 years to the Joneses lifestyle.   Were we missing out on such niceties?  Or, do we secretly possess the ultimate (in our minds) luxury of daily time, instead of a luxury temporary vacation?

We were lucky today.  We were out-and-about enjoying a special time together during the middle of the week, middle of the day—truly living off-peak.

UPDATE:   I was sitting in the dentist waiting area and noticed everyone seemed to be enjoying their (working) day.  I wondered, what percentage of people enjoy their working day.

In re-reading this post, I admit that I’m biased to think that the lifestyle we chose. and live. is preferential to us specifically.  Our choices are not the best choice for most people.  No, not at all.  As I’ve stated before, I’m just sharing my thoughts about our path and journey in life up to this point.

Everyone’s mileage may vary.  Please do one this…enjoy each day.

*** Nothing in this article is to be construed as financial advice.  I am not a financial planner, nor do I pretend to be.  You should always consult your own professional when seeking advice.