Monthly Archives: February 2023

FIRE.169   First period

The first shift when I play hockey is a shock to the system.  I go from a nice, slow warm-up with a few laps and some stick handling/shooting activities to a FULL SPEED puck-chasing body-bumping-heart pumping effort.  My whole energy system jumps into a this-again mode.

Normal Morning

That is similar to the first morning consciousness of most people. 

BBBBUUUZZZZZ, drag yourself out of bed, hit the hot water in the shower, rush around the house, get into the car (sometimes cold/hot), and then sit in traffic until your “work” day begins.

LifeInFIRE – 1st shift

I’ve developed a different routine for my morning.  I wake up when my body naturally decides it’s time to open my eyes.  I usually check my morning heart rate on my phone, check my Heart Rate Variance, check my sleep report for my watch and oura ring, then pull in any new podcasts, then lay there and breathe and relax.

This first period of my day generally lasts at least 20-30 minutes.  I can look out my window and usually see the bright blue sky.  It’s a wonderful way to start the day.  There is no annoying sound breaking the silence.  There is no immediate need to get up and moving.  There is no need to rush for any reason.  I couldn’t ask for more from a first-thing-in-the-morning schedule.

To be honest, my routine started when I was working.  I somehow crafted the ability to work from home for the last 6-7 years of my career.

After I’m up and moving, I tend to begin my daily “commute” (sitting in my spa).    

After my commute (which I often hear the neighbors driving down the street) I am fully focused on my amazing morning.  It NEVER gets old.

Gratitude

I have talked to others who block their time from 8-9a, or even 8-11a.  Recognizing the ability to set your mind into a grateful perspective is so valuable.  It would be wonderful if more people were able to find the good things in their lives and concentrate on those, rather than complaining so often.

*** Nothing in this article is to be construed as financial advice.  I am not a financial planner, nor do I pretend to be.  You should always consult your own professional when seeking advice. This post is not a piece of literary mastery, just a random thought I had.

FIRE.168 “Christmas Card”

I’m not a “real” spender.  I’m not really any kind of “shopper”…well except deal of the day sites.  

I am mostly frugal but will buy some things I want from time to time.  It just usually takes me time to think of/realize what I want.  Then I figure out the best model/features that fit my needs and try and find or wait for a good price.

Xmas List

A few years ago we decided not to limit the things we want to just xmas gifts.  Instead, we decided to keep an “xmas list” that we could purchase and enjoy throughout the year.  I love buying when things are off-peak or on sale.  E.g.  Exercise equipment in summer rather than in January.

Anything List

Just in the past week, I decided to create an “Anything/Everything List.”  It’s my dream list of anything/everything.  During covid lockdowns, I made a list of things to do post-covid.  Surprisingly, I even did some of those activities after covid calmed down, hopefully, more to follow.

I had created the item list on my computer and visited the list multiple times throughout the past week to add my purchasing dreams.  ANYTHING I could think of.  Get this, the only item I could think to add was a self-driving car (3rd generation) maybe a Rav4 type.  (I want lots of bugs worked out in gen 1 &2.)

It’s been days and I still have not added any other purchases.  Not a single one.  However, I did copy some of my post-covid/travel locations onto the Anything List so it wouldn’t look so empty.

I need to dream more, or bigger, or better…

Mall Outing

Today I decided I would get my MoJo on and go to the mall.  I had a starting item to pursue and thought it would be nice to go at off-peak hours at 11am on a Wednesday.

I thought I’d look for some new jeans since I assumed the selection should be overwhelming in a full mall as compared to what just happens to be available at some random thrift store on the day I visit.

As part of my attempt at MoJo, I told my wife that I was taking the “christmas card” with me to the mall.  She gave me her normal, what-are-you-talking-about-now-crazy-man look. 

I explained that in that our Visa card is now being called our Christmas card.  A Visa card to use for our xmas list year-round.

Mall Results

I’m proud(?) to say that I went to the mall for almost 2 hours 11a-1p today (We-Day).  I went solo because Kathy didn’t want to go with me since I’m not good at shopping.  I tend to cruise right through the mall.  There’s no doodling at all.

I left the mall after looking at hundreds of items with a total outflow of only $10.80, tax included.  It was actually a nice and quiet experience with 2000+ steps but it was just too much of a consumering environment.

I did buy some jeans (seriously, stretch jeans for men was a great share from women’s clothing design!).  I could not find anything else that I was willing to purchase.  I must have entered 12 stores and stood in the doorway of 20 others without entering.

Lessons Learned

If you want to do something or enjoy an item, and have saved enough money over time, then reward yourself.  You will never be younger or healthier (possibly) than you are today.  Seize the day.

*** Nothing in this article is to be construed as financial advice.  I am not a financial planner, nor do I pretend to be.  You should always consult your own professional when seeking advice. This post is not a piece of literary mastery, just a random thought I had.